Heal from Family + Exes - Live Free with Love, Peace + Success.

About My Work and Mission

My work is to help you live your truth: that you are powerful, valuable, capable, and destined to lead an authentically rewarding life after difficult experiences with family, past romantic partners, and toxic criticism. The idea that your life is ruined, set for drama, challenges, or meant to be anything less than beautiful, is a lie I help you never give any more power to.

My works serves a mission that stands for a world where no one feels ultimately damaged and powerless because of other people, but instead uses their experience to become the best version of themselves, and lead a rewarding life their soul came here to create and experience.

My work serves courageous people who feel stuck in difficult emotions and their life about breakups, dating challenges, hurtful and energy-draining actions of family and haters. These courageous people are willing to see their situation differently – beyond the pain and of being done wrong.

My work is for strong people who are willing and ready to grow and turn their hard-as-heck experience into triumph by going on to live in peace, freedom, love, and success.

My work is for brave people who want to question traditional ideas and lead a new legacy about important topics like family, love, and personal fulfillment.

If you are – or desire to be - one of these courageous, strong, and brave individuals, and you are willing to explore that your soul is having an experience through difficult relationships to grow and know it’s true nature and purpose, then I can help you and you’ve come to the right place.

If your willingness is to hold tight to your pain rather than grow, believe you are a victim for life rather than a creator of it, or that your life or goals are ruined because of your past, ex-partner, family, ‘the way the world is today’ and so on, then I cannot help you.

If you do not believe in the spirit self (soul) and are not open to exploring your soul and its motivations and purposes behind difficult relationships, then my work is not for you.

I am not a therapist, psychologist, or a member of any regulated health profession. I am an emotionally- and thought-deep woman who over the last 15+ years, has studied, learned, excelled, and changed her life from her own will. I’ve earned two psychology degrees in higher education (B.Sc., M.Sc.), and did self-directed study of soul and spiritual principles through my own spiritual explorations and the rich knowledge of other spiritual leaders seeking truth outside of dogma or doctrine. I’ve also built a 10+ year corporate career navigating and addressing ethical issues. This has gifted me transferrable skills to now help people navigate difficult relationship experiences involving conflict and making choices based on personal principles, values, and heart-centred goals.

I only write and teach about what I know and believe in.

If you're ready to step into your power and create a life better than you ever imagined, I’m here to guide you through the journey.

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Fun Facts About Me


Lover of: Red Lipstick & Beautiful Spaces

Nature Lover but the ‘glam’ kind

It takes me a while to: fully wake up in the morning

I always have time for: A nap

The person I spend the most time with: Me

Favorite Season: Fall

I’d rather: go for a walk in a forest than lay on a beach

Red Wine over White Wine

Spiritual not Religious

Favorite cocktail: Amoretto or Whiskey Sour

Favorite Comfort Foods: BBQ hamburgers, Pasta, Chocolate Cake

Something I do almost every day: Write, meditate/pray

I live in: Canada

Favorite Country so far: Scotland (and I got married there in a castle).

What I’ve worked most on that I’m most proud of: Letting go of feeling responsible for other people’s lives and choices; Unapologetic boundaries; Courage to change paths and live life authentically even when it didn’t please other people.

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I teaching personal transformation on growth-purpose relationships.

WTF is a growth-purpose relationship?

An experience with another person that to the human self, continually feels like a challenge, an imbalanced exchange, or disadvantage, but to the soul, is a powerful and purposeful encounter to evolve and create the highest-fulfilled life. These relationships often occur with family, friends, romantic partners, or other people who feel significant to your life experience. The soul-purpose of them is often outside the immediate awareness of the human self.

We all have growth-purpose relationships - they are a powerful tool our soul uses to awaken and come to know itself.

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MY CREDENTIALS

Degrees - Master of Science, Health Psychology & Brain Behavior (M.Sc.); Honors Bachelor of Science, Psychology & Close Relationships (B.Sc.)

Self-Directed Education - Over a decade of study and application of Soul & Spiritual principles and transformational modalities

Corporate Career - A decade helping people navigate complex ethical topics, and planning and creating systems to address them.

Here’s how I can guide you:

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